Welcome to PlaySpace

PlaySpace is a private Members-Only BDSM (SSC & RACK) play party, not open to the general public, within 10 minutes off Jct 4/4a off the M3. With both Mainline and platform train stations, the venue is 1 hour from London Waterloo – 45 minutes from Paddington (through Reading)

UPDATE: All login information has been sent to Members for whom we have an email address. If you have not received your information, please check your spam folder first, then contact me if it is not there.  Some ISP’s do not accept automated messages, so it is possible yours was eaten up in the ether…….

Hello!  PlaySpace is already undergoing some changes…. we are in the process of finalising new content and ensuring everything is safe and secure for you.  Please check back in the next few days for the latest updates.

If you are already a member of PlaySpace you don’t need to do anything….. we’re taking care of it for you and will let you know when you can start using the site.

PlaySpace – Your Place to Play


All members are vetted and require real life scene references. To become a member, please Apply For Membership. Please allow 48 hours for your membership to be processed. Once membership is approved, access is granted to the Members Area of this website.

(Please note that applications will not be processed until after July 2 as we are away)

The Club

In a licensed spacious venue, provided for our sole use, PlaySpace provides the largest selection of excellent equipment in the UK – a mix of PlaySpace, renowned Sweet Torments and well-known Dungeon E4 equipment. There is ample room to play and socialise in a safe and comfortable environment. It is a PlaySpace for all genders, orientations and kinks in a non-predatory atmosphere. With experienced Dungeon Monitoring and experienced Members, the play is varied, interesting and safe, although often on the “harder” end of the S/m spectrum. These are also non-political events.

The ample buffet, commonly known as “Cheese Mountain and Chocolate Fountain”, provides refreshment after those play sessions.

It is a perfect place to play, relax, chat, watch, and, most of all, ENJOY your evening with friendly members in a warm environment.

Voted 3rd Best Club Night in the UK Outside the M25 (2011)! Thank you so much to our guests for making it a success and to all those who voted for us!

One older review is here: Informed Consent Blog

With ample parking and reasonable accommodation nearby, you can enjoy and sleep in the next day.

The Events

Usually held the 1st Friday of each month, members are notified of any changes to the event Calendar and further details as necessary.

Entry Contribution is £ 20 for Play Parties with a Loyalty Program of every 6th visit Free.
Entry Contribution is £ 10 for Peer Days.

The Dress Code is Fetish, but a minimum of Smart Black – no jeans or trainers. Most of our guests “dress” in some way, as it is a Party. However, our aim is for it to be a comfortable play environment. Therefore, your apparel is what makes you happy within these minimum standards.

We provide free glow-bracelets at the door upon arrival – one colour for Dominants/Tops and one colour for submissive/bottoms. Many guests are naturally curious as to who is looking for someone to play with or who is approachable. This makes guests easily identifiable to each other. Naturally, it doesn’t mean anyone will play, but it might break the ice and help Members get to know each other a bit better. This is just a bit of helpfulness on the club’s part and is purely optional for the guests, of course!

PlaySpace also provides the Dungeon Equipment and Dungeon Monitoring at Pandemonia, Portsmouth’s Fetish Event! Information may be found here: www.fetclub.com.

We’re working very hard to get everything ready for you!